Are you always feeling upset if someone says you’re not pretty or you are fat or your fashion was not that good? Or are you always feeling afraid that someone might tell something bad about you? Don’t worry you are not alone. Every one of us had feared that we are not that good in perspective of other people. But it is really a must for someone to be a better person in the eyes of others? What is a better person anyway? And how to be a better person?
In terms of looks, fashion, character, all of us are made by our creator differ from one another. One person has something that others don’t have. We can’t push ourselves to be someone we don’t even know in person. Even you buy like her/his clothes, you cut your hair like their hairstyle, even you undergo in the process of changing your face or body to be like someone, you are still different from him/her. It’s not bad, it’s your choice.
But after doing everything to make you look good, is it worth it? Yes! Don’t regret what you did to yourself, especially if it feels good and If it’s uplift your fighting spirit. But we cannot please everybody, right? There are others still thinking bad about you. But don’t mind them, it’s your choice, prove to them that you made a wise decision.
From my own point of view, things are getting worse if you think too much about others. Let us say someone says your fat and because of it you feel annoyed or you feel depressed, it turns out a bad impact on you. What if you replied back to him/her, I am fat because I have a lot of food to eat. It turns out you feel proud of being fat and then no one can bully you from being fat again because they know you can handle it. It is about how will you defend yourself from the so-called bullying. Just always think positive, always think the bright side. When you slipped in the floor out of the blue, and all persons who saw you were laughing, yes, it is really a shameful scene but you can turn it into positive, like for example, you stand up and wave like a miss universe or say something like, can you do that and then smile or make a joke about it. Everyone made a mistake in their life like they said nobody’s perfect.
When you always think the bright side, you always feel relax and at ease, even others think the other way. You knew yourself, just don’t be affected and act as if you don’t even hear them. It is you who can tell if you’re a better person or not or if you do wrong or not. You cannot get up and tell the world that you’re a beautiful and better person if you don’t believe your one.
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